well.i jus had to enter this post.haha.cos it's quite a valuable lesson learnt from church ytd.it's quite applicable to our daily lives[teens].

it's about speaking in love.well..this title seemed like it's a whole lot abt love to me in the first place but it's not only that.it's about speech.mainly the communication part.

"Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones."
Proverbs 16:24

this is very impt to me.i mean it jus dawned upon me that sometimes, it jus takes a few heartwarming or 'sweet' kind of words to cheer me up when i'm realli down.yeah.so must watch our speech, it realli affects one to a great extent.who knows, you may jus make their day with a simple,"take care!" =)

and i learnt abt gossip.the truth abt it.well...gossiping may cause dire consequences. when you're unhappy with someone, you shld jus go straight to that person and tell him abt how you feel.this way, he'll know and probably will do sth abt it.[not sth bad laa~~*bangs head*] he may jus apologise.realli.

and well.it isnt realli impt who's in the right and wrong most of the time.it's better to deny ourselves than to lose a friend, rite?*smiles*[you:nod nod!]hees.i'm crappish.=Pp

so...here goes!
I'm really sorry Gabriel!
I'm really sorry Ian!
I'm really sorry Benjamin!